How to Get Lost in Nature and Find Yourself
At first glance, the Southern Willamette Valley appears to have everything the outdoor lover needs to maintain high levels of stoke. On any given day you can visit the jagged Cascades, head to rivers spilling over boulders, or drive to the ocean. Yet our area can also lure even the most adventurous into a beguiling sense of comfort. And, even more accessible than summit beers and catching wild trout, are the town adventures that we love—swinging by your favorite brewery for trivia each week, taking a walk to linger over an espresso and pastry on a chilly morning, or stopping by the Saturday market for a smoothie and some damn good people watching. It’s all a bit too easy, and you can find yourself falling into comfortable routines, getting lulled into a sense of complacency by the rhythms of easy living.
Creature comforts are wonderful, but even the most delicious comfort food can’t be eaten everyday. A good life isn’t achieved by staying within the confines of our comfort zones, but rather from pushing ourselves on a regular basis to embrace new challenges, lean into the unknown, and learn from new experiences. We have all felt the dissatisfaction of knowing we aren’t challenging ourselves to live life to its fullest potential. By stepping outside (literally) into new spaces, we put ourselves in position to grow and live life more fully.
Charlie first felt that same sense of restlessness late one summer on a random Tuesday. After a relaxing weekend biking out to a bakery and later stopping at a brewery with friends, he had settled into his work week as usual. After lunch, his mind drifted to the upcoming weekend, and the thought of repeating last weekend’s activities gave him an uncomfortable feeling. He couldn’t quite put his finger on it, but for some reason he felt a sense of restlessness, a yearning for something bigger than the same routine he’d had since this spring. By Thursday, he decided to do something different, knowing he wouldn’t be satisfied unless he really challenged himself.
Charlie had started running last year to get in shape, and had done a few 10k’s and a half marathon. He liked it. He loved the cadence he found as he fell into a rhythm in the early mornings. He especially liked the short trail runs he did at Pisgah or on the ridgeline system—how he felt a sense of flow navigating the terrain, and how shifting trail conditions forced him to focus deeply on his footwork, balance and cadence.
He realized that it was the challenge of pushing his own limits that he felt now—and that was the edge he craved to discover. It was something casual weekend bike rides and even his normal running routine didn’t fully accomplish. Trail running wasn’t just exercise—it was Charlie’s first reminder that stepping off the curb means learning what discomfort has to teach.
But while Charlie chased restlessness in the burn of his lungs, Sarah found it in the hush of the understory—proof that wildness teaches us in very different tempos. If trail running is about pushing limits, mushroom foraging is about slowing down enough to notice the world that hides beneath our feet.
She heard it first before smelling it. It was the soft patter of a summer rainstorm on the shed roof outside her bedroom window in mid September after an august heat wave. With a sigh of relief, she rolled back over and drifted off to sleep. After waking up and grabbing a cup of coffee, she stepped onto her front porch to look out into the yard and marveled at how fresh the air smelled. Later, over breakfast, she glanced at her bookshelf and noticed her dogeared copy of her favorite mushroom foraging book, and realized with eager anticipation that Chanterelle season was just around the corner,
Sarah remembered the first time her friends had taken her into the Coast Range to look for fall mushrooms. They made her promise to keep the spot a secret, and it was that sense of mystery that permeated her first trip deep into the understory of a douglas fir forest. There, among the sword ferns & wild ginger she felt a surge of excitement when she found her first chanterelle.
It was like discovering hidden treasure.
The act of searching the forest floor caused her to slow down, and she began to notice things about the understory that she’d never appreciated before. She saw salamanders almost perfectly camouflaged next to pieces of bark litter. She noticed next year’s fern fronds tucked in tightly curled nubs deep within the center of lush ferns.
She began to really listen to the forest, which she’d always thought of as a serene, quiet space, erupting into noise once she settled into it: the chatter of pine squirrels and the thunking sound as they dropped cones out of trees; a small flock of jays bickering as they flew from limb to limb of a nearby tree; even the crunching of her own footsteps seemed so loud as she navigated through the underbrush. When Sarah went foraging, she felt fully immersed into a new world. It was a space that existed just beyond reach when she drove by her spot on the way out to the coast, or even when she went on short hikes closer to town. By stepping off the trail and meandering through the woods, she felt a sense of tranquility she rarely experienced elsewhere.
Looking up from her breakfast at her mushroom book reminded Sarah of all of this. She couldn’t wait for the season to shift and the chance to slip into her boots to head out for her first foray of the season. Timing the first trip was always a bit tricky. The mushrooms weren’t on an entirely predictable schedule and they would fruit when the conditions (temperature, rainfall, light levels) were just right. There was no way of knowing for sure, yet it only added to the intrigue and mystery surrounding the experience. It taught her patience, and the humility of knowing she couldn’t control the outcome of every trip into the woods.
If the forest whispered its lessons in patience, the river sang them out loud.
For as far back as he could remember, flyfishing had been Mark’s refuge. He couldn’t fully articulate why it was so effective at bringing him a sense of peace. But it was a surefire way to do a mental and emotional reset, that he knew. The effect was almost instantaneous—from the (quite literal) immersive experience of stepping into the shallows of a favorite gravel bar and shaking out the first few casts, he would become entranced.
Flyfishing requires a strange mix of intense focus interrupted by moments when your attention is allowed to drift freely. Mark would carefully make his cast, heeding his body position and allowing muscle memory to take over as he executed the final movements and watched the shooting head of his line unfurl across the run. He’d then tuck one hand into his jacket pocket and flick his rod hand to mend the line, feeling the slight tension as the fly began its swing. Taking a step down the run to help his fly slow down, he glanced at the water lapping against his legs and noticed the way the afternoon light reflected and moved with the ripples, how the trees on the far bank cast shimmering shadows, and how the osprey was carrying a branch back to its nest.
His swinging line began to slow down as the fly moved into the slack water below him on the near bank, and he shifted his attention back to the task at hand. Mark kept tension on the line for another few moments, knowing that as the fly began to sink he might get a hit. When no hit came, he began to coil the running line with his free hand before making the next cast.
Mark realized that he was fully surrendering himself to the easily repeatable rhythm of his casting sequence. Cast-mend-swing-step. Cast-mend-swing-step. The tempo came every time he was on the water, and he aligned it to match the pace of the water’s flow. It was meditative, refreshing, and fully took him out of his daily routine. In the river’s tempo, Mark didn’t just find fish—he found a reminder that surrender is sometimes the only way forward.
If the river offered its lessons in patience and surrender, the mountains demanded endurance.
Sandra rounded the switchback in the trail and looked downhill to catch a glimpse of her Subaru through the trees. She couldn’t believe she was back at the trailhead after 5 days of solo backpacking in a new wilderness area. She was relieved to see her rig, her feet were throbbing from the rocky downhill trail she’d been on for the last 8 miles, and her shoulders were sore. She looked forward to the celebratory Kombucha she’d stashed in the cooler inside her rear hatch. It was also bittersweet—she felt herself slipping out of the raw grittiness of the past week and back to the predictable paths she’d carved out for herself in her neighborhood. But something was different. She knew this wasn’t the last mountain trip she’d make this year. During her excursion, she had realized trips like this were far more accessible than she had first thought. Sure, there were a few logistical things she would have to do—but it had been such a success! Her menu planning had (mostly) worked out, her body had adapted to the rigors of being on trail and sleeping on the ground. and she absolutely loved being woken up by the sound of birds and lulled to sleep by the croaking of the tree frogs. But what surprised her most wasn’t how good it had been, but how quickly she remembered she belonged out here. She knew she could take on the same level of wilderness adventure in the future. On her drive home, her renewed sense of self confidence gave her a surge of energy she hadn’t felt in years.
Wherever each one of us is at in life, nature offers more than a simple escape from our day-to-day grind. In running we find grit and discipline, foraging grounds us and reminds us of our place in the ecosystem, fishing offers a rhythm and reminder to be patient, and backpacking amplifies our sense of self reliance. The natural world ultimately renews our connection with ourselves. It gives us what we desperately need—the space to hand us a path back to ourselves, one step, one discovery, one cast, one reckoning, one night under the stars at a time.
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